Nice guy, for someone else

June 11, 2009 in Dating in LA | No comments

My girlfriends liked BB, well maybe the idea of him. He was smart, with a great career and seemed to have his shit together.

Then after two dates with him last month, I realized there was no chemistry between us. Or fun, our humor just didn’t connect. I was funny, he was not. He was amused and having a good time, I was waiting to laugh. The conversations just never took off, they felt forced.

So if we’re only going to be friends like I offered, I sure don’t feel right about him paying next time. And then it hit me, I don’t even want to spend one dollar or 5 minutes with him. Hey, I’m saving for a house so I’m kinda careful with my money. I’m bored and uncomfortable around him. I can stay home and feel that way for free.